Reader, OmShantih +, writes (8 October 2009): It is easier said than done but time will heal you. At least, when no longer together, we won't get hurt too much. My advice, takes thing slower in relationship. I just don't interested in other girl but her lol. There are lots more people around who deserve that.Ĭonsider yourself lucky because you are in relationship. What I get is waiting all night while she is having fun with her life.Īfter months living in miserable, I tried to think, it does not worth to feel sad for a person that no longer care about you. I do everything I can just to talk to her. The partner will take it for granted and problem will arise. It makes us somehow clingy and obsessive.
I believe in first love, we go crazy for the partner. From stories that I heard, first love rarely work and most likely is the most you will ever love. That way, you live happier and will be fair to your current gf. Control yourself not to read her facebook profile again. The best thing to do is pack up everything that can make you think of her.
Reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2009): You got a partner now, focus on making this relationship the best you can. It's hard, but it is definitely time to move on. A site like FB is good because you can hear less and less about someones status's, etc with the icon next to the information you are reading. Try not to think about her, do not look at anything that reminds you of her and a good example is a social networking site. As a lot of other fellas here have said know that it ended for a reason and the fact that she doesn't even talk to you anymore? that clearly means she aint the one anyway. It had taken me awhile to literally stop feeling heartbroken to a 100% level with one girl that I would say was my "first love" too. Reader, FrequentFlyer +, writes (8 October 2009): Eventually your first love will fade until she only makes you smile wistfully on the rare occasion that she comes to mind. Reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (8 October 2009):Īndrew is that you? I'm glad you are in a relationship, give it your best shot. yet for some reason, it seems that my first love still has a hold of my heart in some way.įancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! I too am in a relationship now, and am happy. Surely after all this time I should be able to accept that the first girl I ever loved, and the first girl to have broken my heart is not with me anymore! Right? There was a time where she meant the world to me, and now we don't speak anymore, but knowing she is getting on with her life still makes me emotional. yet, having read that she's in a relationship brings up strong feelings of sadness and envy. We've not spoken for about a year and half and separated over 2 years ago. is this normal? How can I fix it?ĭrunkenly I've looked at an old girlfriends profile over facebook. I still miss my first love after 2 years. Im just wondering why an i still thinking about him night and day im married.Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help! We havent spoken either but he comes to my husbands house once or twice a week for the past year. We have never come face to face in all those years. And soon i started dating his best freind and we hid it from him for almost a year and i feel soo guilty about it that it hurts hearing his voice. We broke up when i was almost 16 beacuse i got jealous of another girl from school. Ive never experienced anything like it since him. We were more passionate than my husband is now. We were very intimate about sex and he was gentle. Im not shur if i was too young at the time if it was real or just us growing up together. So almost two years we spent living together and of course we were intimate at such a young age. I dropped out of high school and still lived with him until i was almost 16. He and his mom was there for me every step of the way.
Soon we moved in together and his mom took care of me while i was in school. Nine years ago when i was 14 i feel into deep love with my best freind from school.
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